When I was back from Bangkok last week, I was revealed by my wife that she reduce my girl's hair length as short as the boy's. She was mad that my little girl did not told her homework and received complaints from not only from her school teachers but her enrichment class, jan & Elly as well. Her inattentive and rebellious approach have created multiple headaches to all of us. Seeing that we spent so much time, money and effort over her, and yet she has relentless unrepentant and "bochap" attitude made us worried.
The day when she punished her, the little boy (her brother) cried as well. Of course, the bitter feeling of my wife did shed her tears.
My girl was mad as well and documented in he journal that she "hate" the mother!
However, the best part of the story is that after the day, my wife came to my daughter's study room and apologised for cutting her hair and swept. Both my girl and boy started to cry as well and everything turns out to be happy one.
In a family, we believes that no one is able to being left alone and forget and forgive is the best way to resolve any issues. There is no right or wrong in this house; but rather making everyone respect the each others and ensure the right positive approaches need to be adopted.
My wife is emotional (perhaps influenced by her star, haha). However, one thing is sure, she is always passionate the things she do. She adores my girl and always want her to be a better person.
During her sis's wedding, she can even go all the way to become the photographer and attempted to take on every besy shots. She even stacked herself up to collect the fallen flowers just to create the special effect for her beloved sister. With such her passionate personality, there is little doubt that once she befriended with you, you can ensure that she will be your best friend.
She started to work since secondary 3 part time to support herself to study. Taking all the steps to reach her university degree. Not an easy steps especially she needs to do part time study with her full time nurisng job and yet needs to handle all the family affairs especially taking care of the kids. She got little help from her parents (yet they are expecting her to deliver more). Sometimes, I found that I am more fortunate than her.
I will do my best to bring happiness to her and the family!
Thankx and love u, vivian!
